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Friday, May 4, 2012
Kindly Read!
I'm just curious why do men, treat girls so special when in fact she's just a friend to him? Why give her a special treatment above anyone else, when you already have someone? Why make her feel you like her when you already know that you're already taken? Why would you send sweet messages and quotes but then it was sent to all? Why?
Why let her fall when you're not ready to catch her? Why let her feel loved when you already love someone else? What do you really want? Let her fall and leave her hanging?
We can't really avoid these circumstances because there are really guys who treats someone special but then he just likes her as a friend, he makes her feel so different among the rest but then he already have someone. Girls, can't be blamed if they fall in love with nice guys and those good guys who treats them well because girls could be so vulnerable and so assuming sometimes. Who would take the blame if one way or another someone would be in pain? Will the guy accept the consequence? Will he take responsibility for treating a girl so special and then giving her false hopes when in fact he's taken? Will he take the blame for making her fall for him and in the end let her know that he can only offer her friendship and nothing more? Will the guy be able to say that the girl is special for him but then that's just it? Or will the girl be able to say "hey, it's my fault because I assumed that he feels something for me, he likes me more than a friend. He didn't tell me that he already has someone." Will the girl be able to say that she's too dumb and naive to fall for him even just because he's so sweet, just because of the simple text messages or the simple hellos and sweet smiles? Will their friendship be the same or will there be a gap?
So, guys, please, just please don't let someone fall for you because you make her feel special even though she's not, don't let her have false hopes because it will cause pain and don't break your friendship. Let her know your real intentions, if you just want her to be your friend, let her know beforehand. Tell her about your girlfriend, so that no matter what happens, she knows her limitation, that she's just a friend and most girls will choose friendship over a relationship that's going nowhere!
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